Friday, November 21, 2014

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District 

November 17, 2014

Dear Family, 
That was a really cool story about that boy! I'm glad he's alright. Yikes! I have no idea who the Griffeth family is.
Occasionally I have a really hard time focusing but that's alright. I'm beyond grateful I've had this opportunity to serve
and my favorite thing about it is that I will continue to be a missionary for the rest of my life. I just won't have a badge on. 
Which will be great because then people won't stare me while I eat!! Biggest pet peeve ever. 
Anyway sounds like things are moving forward with the remodel. I can understand how the clutter would get to you...cleanliness is
next to Godliness right? 
Sound like winter season has hit just about everywhere...it's gotten really cold here as well. I'm still trying to figure out whose idea 
it was to put sister missionaries in a skirt in the middle of blessed Nebraska for the winter. Not my favorite rule ever! I'm thankful for long boots,
fleece lined tights, gloves, and a coat. Granted it takes me like 8 years to get dressed in the morning but I'm warm. 
This week was really the usual up and down week of a missionary. I'm getting so tired sometimes I just dream about sleeping. I don't know how
Elders do this for two years...missionary work is so hard. It's a great work but it's hard work. 
Some miracles that happened this week was we had a zone conference in Lincoln!! So I got to spend some time in a city that I served in for 9 months. 
It was great and a couple of Holmes Lake members came to the church and said hi! Oh my goodness it was so great to see them. 
But a really cool miracle happened on the way to Lincoln. We were driving on I-80 just chugging along and we were coming up on this car. It had Iowa license plates
and a Montana sticker. I was like I know that car! Where do I know that car? Then it dawned on me that it was my ward mission leader from Sioux City!!! 
We came up side by side their car and we honked and sure enough it was the Walkers!! AH!! It was such a tender mercy to see them. I hadn't heard or seen from them 
in a year. So we pulled off at some random exit cried and talked and then Bro Walker was like this is great but I'm cold meet us at Perkins in Lincoln and we'll all go get
hot chocolate! :)  It was wonderful. The exact timing of meeting them on the freeway was for sure not a coincidence. :) 
Zone Conference was wonderful we had Elder Nielson from the 70 come. Both Elder and Sister Nielson answered some of my questions and concerns and it was 
really great to see some of my past companions like Sis McCauley!!! I also saw some Elders and Sisters from my MTC district. It feels like just yesterday we were all 
there goofin off. 
Then another miracle happened yesterday...my comp and I felt like we needed to go visit this member. So we did and we were just talking to her because she was having 
a super rough time and was just struggling so hard with some things. So we went over and she's making pumpkin muffins and cuts her finger on the can of pumpkin. The cut is really deep, so blood is everywhere and she can't handle blood at all. So I'm holding paper towel after paper towel on her thumb and we're like Sister we need to go the ER. So we do. Luckily I know the ER people and they totally remembered me! So this Sister is just crying as she getting shots and stitches and what not and we're trying to distract her with funny stories. We make through the ER and then it dawned on us that we hadn't planned on seeing that Sister at all. She just came in my thoughts and in the thoughts of my wonderful companion. Sis Harris and I had been struggling so much this week, a lot of things have happened and this area is just so hard sometimes.  Yeah it's been rough, we hate going to church here because of some people. Anyway needless to say we felt like we weren't making a difference at all. We were discouraged. We felt like God didn't trust us at all in this area and many more emotions. But we realized that we are worthy to have the Spirit with us despite our weakness and despite our discouragement we can do the Lord's will. It's amazing how the Lord teaches us things. But yeah. 
We can only pray that we can see peoples hearts change this week.
Now that I wrote a super long email....whoops. Love you guys and thanks for all the support. 
Love, Sister Curfew 

November 10, 2014

Dear Family, 
Glad church went well and that the house is hopefully put back together. Let me know how EFY goes. That'll be cool. 
Mom, I love your testimony. It's the simple ones that are powerful. :)  And I want to get my foot zoned? Is that even how you say it? 
This week was full of crazy busy service. We mowed lawns, raked up leaves, organized a garage, cleaned a LA apt, and helped a LA 
after her surgery. We taught a couple lessons here and there and then we went to Omaha to the trail center with our investigator. She's 14 and 
really wants to get baptized! All we need is permission from her guardian and we should be home free to teach her the lessons. :) 
We were really blessed this week. I'm sorry this is so short but we didn't really do anything else this week. 
I'm doing alright. I'm really really tired we might just sleep for the rest of the day today. But hopefully we can get our energy back somehow. 
Love you guys! 
Love, Sister Curfew

November 3, 2014

Dear Family,
Yes I got the Halloween package! Thank you they were awesome. :) Sounds like our house is in a bit of turmoil...But it'll look good when
it's done I'm sure. What kind of floor is going in? Yeah, we went to the Saturday session of Stake Conference and everyone was like let me get pictures
of you for the facebook page. I'm pretty much a model. :) haha joke. The pumpkin pictures were either from Adrienne or Elicia not sure which one you got. 
Sorry to hear that your phone went into the toilet...was it clear water?? Is Dad feeling any better? Yes, I've been taking the Chewy vitamin stuff. I'm actually all out. 
We had Stake Conference yesterday and they too talked a lot about going to the temple. I would love to go to the temple as well but we're not allowed too. Ha awkward. Also I will start sending packages home next week. I've got to get all of the stuff I need to send home gathered together. 
Well this week was great. I was not transferred!! So we begin a new transfer! And it'll be my last! We're hoping for some serious miracles. 
So hopefully this doesn't sound to rude, but to help me stay focused it would be a huge help to not talk about coming home or to talk about the future in emails. Hopefully 
that will be a little easier for me to say focused. No worries I haven't gotten trunky yet. I don't think it's hit me.
We were blessed with a lot of cool things this week. One, we found a solid new investigator. Again because of members she was a lot more interested than she would
have been on her own. And she's only 14! She's a really smart and prepared 14 year old. Two, branch parties are the best. We had LA and Inv come to the Halloween party 
the branch put on this week. They really enjoyed the fellowship and we were just pumped that people came! They didn't come to church but that's alright. One step at a time here. 
We also had a great Halloween. We were able to spend it with the Deakin family and man did they stuff us alive with food. :) 
A downside to this week was almost everyday we were yelled at. That's wasn't my favorite but oh well. One of our investigators decided she didn't want to be baptized and 
so she yelled at us and told us we were horrible and what not. Afterwards we were like...I don't think she's ready. She'll get there. Then Carol the lady we live with yelled at us. About laundry. Sometimes member housing is really hard especially when they make it very clear everyday that they never wanted us to live there and they were forced to house us by the branch president.  I love being a burden...but whether they like us living there or not they'll still be blessed.
Super funny thing that happened this week was we went to go see this LA. And he answered the door in his underwear...gross. So he is in his 50's and he just sat down 
on his front stairs because we didn't have a team up and couldn't go inside. Oh my what an awkward situation. But we preceded to teach him about prophets and it went well despite the awkwardness. Oh missionary work.  So yeah that was our week. :) This area is pretty much rockin :) 
Thanks for all of your support and prayers. Could you please continue to pray that I will be able to stay focused? 
Love you all very much! 
Love, Sister Curfew  

October 27, 2014

Dear Family,
Thanks for the email. Sounds like y'all have been busy. What kind of floor is going in in the kitchen and bathroom? I think God just wants 
me to cut wood for the rest of my life because one of our LA mentioned that she would like help splitting her wood this year...
Has it snowed in Utah yet? 
That's sad that people are falling away. I heard this quote in a Relief Society lesson once prophesying that things like this would happen. Then 
the quote went on and explained that if you don't have a foundation of the Book of Mormon than your testimony won't stand at the last day. It was quite bold. 
That's probably why are mission is focusing on the Book of Mormon. Everything we teach to anyone needs to be out of the Book of Mormon. 
We do have quite a few of investigators. We're teaching a lot of the first lessons, which I love because it's my favorite lesson to teach. We're also seeing 
a lot of success with Less Actives! They're starting to come to church! The members here really are what's making the difference. The members follow up, have constant contact,  and build friendships so easily with everyone. It's really cool because more and more of the members are changing and developing Christlike attributes! Praise the Lord! :) 
Although we're having much success Sis Harris and I both got really sick this week. We're not really sure what we had. But we slept a lot. Being sick on the mission
stinks. I hate it so much. But what can you do? 
We also went on exchanges this week.  It was a really rough exchange. I worked in Holdrege with the STL while Sis Harris worked in Kearney with the other STL. 
Usually exchanges uplift and encourage and inspire you to be better. Well this time when the exchange was done I felt like a failure. I felt like I had wasted 17 months of 
my life. Some of the comments she made really hurt my feelings. I felt like Heavenly Father was disappointed in me. It really sucked! For the first time on my 
mission I felt like quitting. It was a really scary moment. I didn't want to pray because I was afraid that Heavenly Father was going to be like Sister your STL is right. 
Our branch leader gave me a blessing and it brought a lot of peace. It didn't really say anything specific about anything, but I just felt more at peace. Which is really 
all you need right? So I prayed and did what one of the Apostles talked about in conference about how we need to express our thoughts, fears, frustrations, EVERYTHING in our prayers. So I did. I don't what Heavenly Father thought but I sure felt better. So I guess I just get over what happened and continue to do my best as a missionary. 
Oh trials. I guess they're needed but they're hard. 
We also stayed at another members house to keep her company and watch their dog for a day. It's a huge yellow lab and his name is River. I want them to get another dog
and name it Creek. ha ha I'm hilarious. :) But River does not leave my side when we go over he slept with me, he waits outside the door while I go to the bathroom, and I might bring him home with me. I don't know how, but I'll make it work. Ha just joking. :) 
So Robin and Carol have been out of town for like 2 weeks. Usually they let us know when they come home. Nope not this time. So in the middle of the night I wake 
up to the door opening and I'm like oh my gosh someone is breaking in. We're going to die. So I'm like freaking out and I sneak upstairs and see Carols white hair and I was 
like I'm going to kill you guys. They were like we thought it would be funny to surprise  you. I was not a happy camper.
Anyway, that's pretty much all we did this week. Thanks for everything. Love you guys!
Love, Sister Curfew  

October 20, 2014

Dear Family,
What other projects are you doing? Crazy that Blaine will be graduating this next year. Hopefully you don't get sick. 
I loved the picture of you guys at the Utah State game! :) That was super cute. Did Daemian and Aidan get my letters? 
This week was awesome! We found like 3 new investigators! It was really cool. So we now have a total of like 12 investigators! 
 We were looking at their names on the board during weekly planning and we realized that all of them except one were 
with members help. Whether it be a member referral or it be that a member prepared them by bearing simple testimony. There was only 
one investigator that we found through our own efforts. My testimony of member missionary work is increased so much! I used to think 
it was a lot easier without members getting involved because they make things complicated. Which is sometimes true, but once the members
are in a sense "trained" man alive they're really effective. :) 
We had zone training this week as well so we trekked off to North Platte. In the training our Zone Leaders basically told us that we were prideful and 
that we're horrible missionaries. I was like well then...I guess we better humble ourselves. But let it be known last time I prayed to be humbled I sprained
my ankle so I haven't prayed to be humbled quite yet. So instead I read the talk from President Uchtdorf from the last Priesthood session and I really loved it. :) I love how Apostles phrase things and I love how the Spirit motivates. I think this is my favorite quote from the talk:
"Brethren(Sisters), if it is your great desire to cultivate Christlike attributes offaith, virtue, knowledge, temperance, patience, brotherly kindness,godliness, charity, humility, [and service],”10 Heavenly Father will make you an instrument in His hands untthe salvation of many souls.
Go Christlike Attributes! Woo! But yeah, it was a great week and I love being a missionary. :) 
Love you guys! 
Love, Sister Curfew 

October 13, 2014

Dear family,
Well, thanks for forgetting me again...ha just joking. It's not a big deal. 
Hopefully things are going well for you guys in Mo-town. 
Well this week was kind of incredible....like really incredible. We got a sweet
new solid investigator. The members are changing!! They've done some crazy Christlike
things this past week. I gave a training in Dst Mtg that went really well. We had 7 investigators
come to church!! One was Patrick who dropped us like 3 weeks ago! He just randomly came to church. It was crazy! So we were fasting yesterday for branch unity and because of the branch unity we would be able to see a baptism. So just imagine fasting for that and then walking into church and seeing 7 investigators there. I was like man I'm fasting everyday! 
I can't even describe to you all the stuff that happened this week. It can be summed up by saying that our members are improving, the area is progressing, and this is the Lords work. I came to the conclusion yesterday that because this is the Lords work He can give us people to teach. He can give us a baptism. He knows each of his children individually and so He knows who's ready and who isn't. I was like why am I stressing when the Lord had totally got this covered. :) Wish I would've figured that out earlier in my mission. :) 
Funny story...so we went home to go eat dinner like we always do. As I was putting my stuff on my bed I hear Sis Harris ask me in a really hesitant voice "Sister please tell that's one of your head bands" I look down where she is looking and this snake is coiled up in our hallway. We all know that I'm crazy afraid of snakes. So I do what any girl would do. Scream for Robin and limp upstairs to find her. Robin just rolls her eyes and comes down and picks it up and takes it outside like it's no big deal...And this is why I was not called to foreign mission....:) 
So yeah. I'm doing well. I love you guys and I hope you have a great week! 
Love, Sister Curfew

pictures

Bored in the car

Mission District

October 6, 2014

Dear Fam,
I would have to agree conference was crazy awesome! We are so blessed to have such inspired leaders. We were particularly grateful for 
Elder Bednars talk because we had an investigator watching that talk! Our investigator had decided to take a break from meeting with 
us but he watched that talk with a member and we're meeting with him on Tuesday. Praise the Lord! :) 
I did see the pictures of Aidan losing his tooth. He looks so old. 
What did Chels send me? Was it the fruit leather or was that you? I will start sending packages home in the middle on November. I shouldn't have that much 
stuff to send but I'll be sending a lot of my study stuff/ summer clothes home.  Sounds like the mission reunion was super awesome. I'm glad he talked a lot 
about missions because they're incredible. 
Speaking of incredible we were so blessed this week! So everyday we were fed by a member this week!!! One of the members was the member was someone
who had let everyone know she didn't like us. But she said that she had been humbled and explained everything that's going on. So it was a really neat experience. 
Also one of our investigators got a blessing. She's 17 and her parents are open to us and we're pretty good friends, but they still are a little wary of the whole
Mormon situation. But Shelby got really really sick and so we and a couple of priesthood brethren went to their home, and they gave her a blessing and her parents sat in on the blessing.  Afterwards the Dad was like "Wow, Shelby I feel better for you. That was good. " It was a really powerful blessing. My testimony of the proper priesthood authority
was for sure strengthened that day. And we potentially have a family to teach! Hopefully. :)
Yeah we had a great week. This area needs a LOT of work but I'm thankful that the Lord has blessed with miracles this week. :) 
Thanks so much for your support and your love. I love you all very much. 
Love, Sister Curfew

Monday, September 29, 2014

September 29, 2014

Dear Family, 
Blaine. You're an odd duck. Can I just say it's weird that you're like best friends with someone my age? Glad you enjoyed yourself at the comic con. Nerds unite...;) 
I'm excited to go to the Ogden temple again!!! WOOO! I'm glad you got to sing with a whole bunch of people. Sis McCauley's sisters sang as well so you 
probably saw them!  Also we've only had one Christmas where we weren't all together. Yes I agree I will be watching a crazy ton of movies. Get a list of good 
movies for me to watch. :) 
Anyway enough with this worldly business. This week was interviews with President Weston. And that was my last interview with him besides my 
departing interview. Yikes! It was a really good interview. He talked a lot about how the Lord has specifically placed me in the areas I've been because I have a talent. 
The annoying thing is is that he wouldn't tell me what the talent was. He was like you have to figure it out. Yeah I have no idea.  He also talked a lot about my progression 
as a missionary and how cool it is to see me now compared to when I first came out. Which I don't get because I feel like the same person.  Except I've gained a ton of weight. Ooops. The funny part about my interview is he saw me limping into the interview room and he was like "Sister, who ya been kicking." and was like "Satan!"
Then he proceeded to tell me to buy compression socks because that will help with the swelling and I won't have to elevate all the time. I don't even 
know what compression socks are so...oh well. 
Unfortunately our investigator Brandon dropped us. :( If you guys could pray that he will feel the Spirit as he reads the Book of Mormon that would be much 
appreciated. He doesn't want to meet with us anymore but he promised us he would read. He says that the Book of Mormon contradicts the Bible and that he thinks
Nephi and Lehi just ate the wrong mushrooms in the wilderness. I don't really think that they had mushrooms in the desert...Anyway. Although lame stuff like this 
has happened all week. Sis Harris and I were talking and we were like you know we could blame all the crap on us. Or we could just know that opposition exists. 
Satan is going to do all that he can to make sure that no one reads there Book of Mormon. Including members. 
We've been noticing that a lot of the reason why the members are struggling hard core in this is area is because they aren't reading, they aren't praying.
So we're working on teaching lessons where we aren't preaching the basics. They know the basics. We all do. So any ideas or object lessons would be great. 
My ankle is healing well.  We played softball for a YW activity and I ran a couple of laps. That's all I could do though because Robin showed up and started yelling at 
me for running. She's such a mom. :) 
I'm doing well. I'm getting really tired. I'm hoping a second wind will kick in soon...or I might have to drink coke for the next 3 months. Either way. :)
Love you guys and good luck with the house and refinancing and stuff. 
Love, Sister Ash Curfew 

September 22, 2014

Dear Family, 
All is well. How was the temple dedication? A storm is headed our way so hopefully we'll get some of that rain!  
The pizza was awesome!!! We were really excited to come home to pizza we were starving. :) 
Glad you're enjoying your foot zoning class. 
Well this week was different. As you know I started out the week with a trip to the ER. And let it be known the ER people here have 
no sense of humor. I was cracking jokes left and right about how there was a golf ball in my ankle and they just looked at me like
 I was a moron. Rude. I don't know if Robin told you the story...but I fell off a step stool. Let it be known that I fell really gracefully. 
And my companion just laughed at me while I was crying on the floor. I was so mad. Thankfully Robin helped me up the stairs and into
the car. But I can still drive. Anyway I got a blessing and it said that I would be healed in less than 3 days. And it totally happened. Well kind of. 
Like Monday and Tuesday I couldn't put any weight on my ankle or I would just cry. But Wednesday I could hobble/walk with out crutches. Which 
was awesome because my armpits were crazy sore. Then I've just been improving since then I have to have my splint on for another week and half 
and I have to sleep with my foot elevated. (Which stinks) And I'm supposed to be icing it 3 times a day. There is a lot of fluid in my ankle still so the 
swelling is still pretty bad. My bruise is really nasty. I'll have to send pictures.  
But yeah. The branch has just started calling me gimp and they have been super awesome at helping us. 
So obviously we couldn't go out and work that much because I couldn't move so we didn't really have a chance to teach very many people. 
But on Saturday we were able to go and do service and then go and actually for reals work! It was so cool because we worked like 3 hours in 
Minden ( a small town in our area) and we taught 5 lessons. That never happens. we're lucky if we teach 5 lessons in 2 days. I was so thankful
that the Lord was mindful of us. 
So yeah that was my week. Hopefully my ankle will hold up. We have interviews on Wednesday and I'm slightly tempted to get the crutches out
and hobble into the interview and see what President says...but I probably won't end up doing it. He'll probably be like Sister why don't you have enough
faith to be healed already. ha :) 
Well I love you guys and good luck with the house. 
Love, Sister Curfew 

September 15, 2014

Dear Family,
THE PACKAGE WAS AMAZING! I shed a couple of tears. Especially with the homemade bread and the zucchini bread. Mmmm :) Yeah I have the best family ever. :) I'm sure
you guys already knew that though.  Also Adrienne like loves you guys. What did you do to her? Robin loved her package as well. Thanks for remembering her that made her day. :)
I can't believe you met Wesley!!!! :) I'm glad you and Blaine had a great time nerding...And I agree your lack of costume totally means you're already super heroes. 
I decided for Halloween this year I'm just going to wear a super hero shirt and tuck it into one of my skirts. :) ha. 
I've hear the foot zoning thing is huge. I'll admit I'm a bit skeptical...but I've never had it done to me so I guess I really can't say anything. 
That's SO COOL that you're mission president is an Apostle and that you get to see him. Whenever I see him speak in conference I'm always like, yeah that's my Dad's
mission president. Ha no big deal. :) 
Yeah I have received a lot Enduring to the End speeches. I'm honestly not to worried. I was earlier but I prayed a lot and I just decided to not worry about anything
until I get home.  I feel like I still have a while left so I don't know why everyone is like preparing me for home. Granted I don't really want to come home...so maybe I'm 
just in denial? I don't know. 
Anyway this past week was crazy hard! I had an experience very similar to the experience I had in Trendwood...I handled this one much better than the last one though! 
Woo! Go Sister Curfew. ;) Our branch is just struggling hardcore. All they do is gossip and bash and so on and such forth. It makes me so sad. Mostly because if this is how
our branch is going act then I don't want to bring investigators or Less Actives to branch activities.  We've been promised by President Weston that if we can get our branch/ward to read the Book of Mormon then that unit will achieve unity. One can only pray that this branch will open up the Book of Mormon. 
Ever since we've been applying that promise and trying to get anyone and everyone to read The Book of Mormon we have experienced some crazy opposition. I'm thankful
for the opposition though because it has strengthened my testimony of how powerful this book is.  Satan knows full well that if we read this other testament of Jesus Christ 
we will grow closer and closer to Christ and therefore become diligent followers of our Savior.  
We had one of our investigators drop us this week because is heart is SO HARD. We taught him the Restoration and he liked everything except the Book of Mormon. 
We  asked him to read and pray about it and etc...So when we went and followed up on it he was like I don't like this book. It has nothing to do with Christ. I laughed and I was 
like what book did  you read? So we read 3 Nephi 11 with him and explained the chapter and the Spirit was so strong and I was like oh my gosh this book rocks. Then the dear 
investigators says that we're crazy and we have no idea what we're talking about and that we're wrong and we're going hell. You know the usual.  I was so devastated. Not because
of what he said we get that everyday we're used to that. But the fact that he felt the Spirit he knew that it testified of Christ and he willingly chose to go against it.  After that experience I said a prayer of gratitude that I was raised in this church and that I understood what it means to have a living prophet and how grateful I was that I have 
gained a testimony of this gospel. I can't even tell you how thankful I am for the experience. 
So despite the crazy week where everyone was hating on everyone I found great comfort in my Book of Mormon. I know it to be true and know that it changes peoples hearts. 
I hope you guys have a great week. I love you! 
Love, Sister Curfew 

Monday, September 8, 2014

President Skinner

September 2, 2014

Hi Sister Curfew,

Thank you for your missionary service and for how you represent our great Stake of Zion.

I know you have only a few months left on this mission.  Your mission can become "full" but it is not yet "full" (reference D&C 62:2).  You still have the most important part remaining.  The "enduring to the end" is the most important.  For those of you who like sports, this is the 4th Quarter or the 9th Inning of a game.  For those that like music, this is the culminating verse or stanza.  For those that like plays, this is the final act.  At this point in your mission, you have developed into a wonderful and powerful missionary.  I know you're not perfect, but you can be powerful.  Don't hold back nor hide your candle under a bushel.

May I offer a challenge to you?   Make these last few months the best of your mission. Enjoy the work.  Work hard and with a hastened pace.  If your mission has weekly records for work, break those records.  You can't change people's decisions but you can control your own pace.  Keep the rules better than ever before.  And remember to enjoy it.  I know with the Spirit you can accomplish much good.

I love you and pray for you.  I look forward to seeing you in a few months when I will have the honor of releasing you from full-time missionary service.

Thank you,

President Joey L. Skinner

Funny

The members won't feed us because the past sisters were crazy
 picky and wouldn't eat their food. 
Well...we like food. So we're posting this above our meal calender. Ha! :)

September 8, 2014

Dear Family,
Glad you liked Adrienne. The license plate says River Song. I knew Blaine would like that because it's from Doctor Who.  
Robin showed me the pictures!!! I loved them. Aidan is getting so big!  I got an email from President Skinner, I'll forward it to  you. It kind of 
freaked me out. Not sure how I feel about ending my mission. I wish everyone would just stop talking about it. Anyway, Sorry you were sick. 
Everyone in our branch except a couple families was sick this week as well so no one was at church this week. Actually pretty much everyone
in Holdrege was sick because every time we knocked on a door people are like come back we're sick. Yeesh. President Weston told us that we have
 to go get our flu shots... blech. Not a fan. But we're going to try and do that sometime this week. 
We kind of had a rough week this week...but it turned out pretty well towards the end. It was just a crazy discouraging week. Church yesterday helped 
a lot. I love taking inspired to questions to church and having them be answered. 
Ha funny story, we took this sister on a team up with us to go see this LA family. She's in her 50's and she just won't stop talking. Well she decided to
show this LA family how to do the splits. That was incredibly embarrassing for everyone there. Oh my goodness, let it be known when you go on team 
ups with the missionaries...DON'T DO THE SPLITS! Anyway that was interesting.
Even though our member went cray cray on us, the lesson with that family went well. :) 
We also had a womens conference that was all about holding onto the Iron Rod/Nephi's vison. Something that I really enjoyed learning about was the Love of God. 
That phrase "Love of God" really made an impression in my mind so this week I'm going to do a topic study of the Love of God and hopefully gain some insights. 
Something that also was talked about was tender mercies and what they are, and how we can be consistent in being obedient servants. They talked about the word
"striving". As long as we are striving we're doing what the Lord would have us do. That brought me a lot of comfort. :) 
But yeah that was my week. I hope all is well at home. Love you guys. 
Love, Sister Curfew 

September 2, 2014

Dear Family,
Woo new computer! Sounds like a lot has been happening. That's cool that you can start running again. I wish I could run...I just need a companion 
who want to run as well...They're hard to come by. Glad you saw the pictures at zone conference. A lot of pictures happen at zone conference so I'm always
curious which ones go on the internet...
I like living with Carol and Robin a lot. Carol she's my favorite. She tells it like it is. She is divorced so it's all girls in the house. Woo! 
Robin is awesome. Her husband passed away from cancer when her two boys were 6 and 8. Then she got breast cancer after that. So Carol is Robin's mother in 
law. Modern day Ruth story. :) 
I do like Sis Harris. I'll be honest she requires more patience that other companions but for the most part we get a long really well.  She's an incredible teacher which is really all that matters. She's from Carlsbad California, and before the mission
she worked at Lego Land. I think that's my favorite thing about her. Her parents are super old. Her Dad is a stake patriarch and her oldest sibling is 52. I just 
can't wrap my brain around that one...Anyway. 
I think that Dad is going to be the next EQ president. 
Wow, you're really far in the Book of Mormon! I'm being a slow poke! The PMG challenge seems pretty awesome though. It's required to read it here so I'll have to do that 
when I go home. 
Rylan came home?! He just left?! Weird. 
Anyway, this week was awesome! We were very blessed to find investigators! It amazes me how we are always in the right place at the right time. It kind 
of freaks me out every time it happens. At the same time I've been super tired. I don't know what my deal is this week. I think the Lord only blessed us cause
I was not mentally all the way there most of the week. Ha. We do service at this Senior center here in town and they pranked me with a fake rat. Old people are my favorite. 
They're so weird. I love it. Also, I'm a really big fan of the Book of Mormon. I have come to the conclusion that the Spirit of reading it everyday is what solves my problems. 
Because it makes seem like they're aren't a big deal and it reminds me of how great God is. I've been feeling super overwhelmed lately because we have a ton of commitments 
that we've  been asked to do. Like hand out a BOM every day, teach 20 lessons a week ( I know it seems small but, I've only reached that twice my whole mission.), Baptize monthly, every key indicator needs to filled in, and so on and so on and so on.  I just am overwhelmed because we try and hand out a BOM everyday, or we don't baptize monthly, or I forget to study that one chapter. The list will go on.  But when it doesn't happen I'm like great. I'm going to hell. Someone warm up my seat cause I'll be there! Anyway I'm just grateful the Book of Mormon is like Sister Curfew chill out, and I'm like okay that's a great idea. So yeah. That's been my week. I love you guys and 
I'll talk to you later. 
Love, Sister Curfew

pictures

Catfish

Frog in the window well

Sister Checketts

Sister Gomez

August 18, 2014

Dear Family,
What did mom do while she was by herself? Sounds like you had a blast camping and doing guy stuff. I miss that kind of stuff a lot. 
I tried to convince President Weston to let us sleep in a tent in the members yards who live super far away so then we could work in 
that area the next day. He said no. But it was worth a shot. I also tried to convince the Elder over cars to buy us a truck. He also said no. 
Man, lots of rejection. Yeesh I'm just trying further the work. ;) Kind of. A guy in our branch bought me a fishing pole! And we're going fishing 
next prep day. I'm pretty pumped. Sorry about the computer dying. Technology these days...
Well this week went really well. It always has it's ups and downs but you know that just the way things are. I'm loving my comp. She's great. :) 
We're very similar. I don't know what I did to be blessed with two awesome comps in a row...Hopefully we stay companions for the rest of my mission. 
A Recent Convert helped us get a new investigator this week! Mark, the recent convert, told this guy at work about his baptism. He said he was searching 
for a new church and wasn't sure what to think anymore. Um. Can anyone else say prepared?! Mark was like so we have these missionaries  that teach about
our church and the gospel of Jesus Christ. IT WAS AMAZING! I haven't taught the Restoration to someone so open. He had so many question and was 
so confused. He really really liked Joseph Smith's story. He was like see that sounds like God, calling another prophet. And we set him for baptism! We set him 
for Nov 8th! So if you could pray that he will find the answers he needs and be able to make that date that would be great. His name is Brandon. He actually looks 
exactly like Blaine...it's kind of weird.  
Anyway our investigator Patrick was supposed to be baptized this week but unfortunately he was still drinking coffee. :( So we had to reset him. But because of his work 
schedule he won't be able to be baptized until like October or November. So if you could pray that a miracle would happen and that his work schedule will allow
him to be baptized. That would also be great. :) 
Oh! So weird moment. Do y'all remember when we went on the road trip and we drove through Nebraska on I 80? Well we were driving to North Platte for 
zone training, which is 2 hours away, but we drove by a rest stop that I'm pretty sure we stopped at because it looked super familiar. I could be wrong but 
I'm pretty sure that that is one of the rest stops we stopped at. So how weird is that we drove past my area! Whaaat?! :) I just thought that was cool. 
So yeah we had a super great week. :) I like it here and I'm adjusting well. 
Thanks for all of your love and support. :) 
Love you! 
Love, Sister Ashley Curfew

pictures

Ana and Elsa

Bundt Cake

At the Lake Before Transfers

Packing

August 11, 2014

Dear Family,
I'm not upset at all about you guys not coming to pick me up. I will for sure have to send some stuff home though. I'll probably start doing that later though. I'm glad you
had the missionaries over! Dinner appts are our favorite. Glad to hear that they were funny. It's so weird to me think that there are missionaries in our small town. I
love my birthday stuff. I also got the backordered stuff. Ah it's my favorite thank you! :)
Well surprise I did get transferred! I'm in Holdrege Nebraska. It's in the middle of nowhere, and I'm serving in a branch. On a good day 50 people show up to church.
So that's been quite the adjustment being in a super small town and not a ward. But I LOVE IT. I miss Lincoln a ton though. I get a bit homesick now and again
for Holmes Lake. I miss the members there a lot. It was also heartbreaking to say goodbye to Sis McCauley. We were late getting to transfer point and so it was
quick goodbye and we just cried for a second. My new comp is Sis Harris. She's really cool. I don't know much about her yet.  We also live with members! It's been awhile since I've lived with members. We live with these ladies who are basically the story of Ruth. They're hilarious. They make homemade bread everyday! Woo!!! :)  
But this area is rockin! We have an investigator getting baptized next week. We have to give members of our branch a copy of our schedule because they
make appts for us with people they just randomly find at work. Then they call us and are like hey come teach this person at this time. It's insane! Members
also like nag us to go on team ups! What is this place?! They're like when can I come out with you guys, I need my team up. It's kind of amazing. It's also nice
have a branch mission leader who actually cares about us and the work. The mission leader in Holmes Lake was less active...that's awkward. Almost everyone here
is a graduate from Utah State. So I was welcomed really open arms. haha :) I knew going to USU was a good choice.
Oh so cool story. So I got off the transfer van and this Sister comes up to me and is like your Sister Curfew?! I've heard so much about you because I served in Le Mars.
And she told me about all of these investigators who I once taught who are getting ready to be baptized. Some Less Actives I was working with are going to the temple! It was
and incredible experience. She just hugged me and I balled cause I felt like I hadn't made any difference in Le Mars. All we did was  tract and do service.  And I was so excited to hear about people I love so much accepting the gospel! :) It was a huge tender mercy to just hear her share her love of the amazing people in Le Mars. It also helped me put into perspective that conversion takes time. I can't explain to you how amazing that feeling was when she told me all the stuff that was going on there.  I'm sure we looked like dorks cause we're both just crying because she didn't want to leave and we both just miss it so much!
It's crazy that was a year ago. Anyway. I'm doing really well. Every now and again I get a bit teary eyed cause I miss Lincoln. But I know this is where I'm supposed to be
and I look forward to hopefully ending my mission here. The members were like we'll help you sprint to the finish line Sister! Ha they're so cool. :)
Well I love you guys and are grateful y'all are doing well. Thanks for all the prayers and support. Love you all!
Love, Sister Curfew

August 4, 2014

Hey fam,
Sorry this email is going to be super short because we kind of ran out of time. We went to a lake with some members
and we actually got permission to play volleyball with our whole zone including Elders. Which is a huge deal.
But I love you guys still!
I'm doing well. Things are going well. Nervous for transfers but I will let you know how it goes.
Glad to hear no pets died this week. And yeah .
This is what I've been studying.
Love you guys. :)
(https://www.lds.org/ensign/2012/04/the-atonement-and-the-journey-of-mortality?lang=eng)

July 28, 2014

Dear Family,
Well I would recommend telling me when things die in a letter and not an email because I'm crying like a baby in the library...
I'm pretty sure the people around me think I"m a freak. But oh well.  Super bummed to hear about Daisy. Where did you bury her?
That's cool that you guys went to Yellowstone, I hear good things about it all the time so I'll have to go up there some time.
Haha Blaine's jaw bra looks as awesome as it could be.  I hated that thing. It's a wee bit humiliating.
Yes I am old enough to drink beer. We were joking around with the Elders when we were moving stuff and 2 Elders and I are 21 and they were like yeah let's go party, we can leave the children at home. It just made me laugh. I don't feel like I'm 21 but whatever. Thanks so much for the birthday package. I gave it to a member so I wouldn't open it until the 27th. I really enjoyed it. So it was SIs McCauley's birthday on the 25th so it has pretty much been a party weekend. The members fed us so much! We ate like 5 cakes and so on. We were very thankful though. :) Sis McCauley got silly string in her birthday package and proceeded to spray it all over me and my scriptures during personal study. Needless to say that study wasn't as spiritual as it could have been. Not my fault.
Yes it has been incredibly hot. 110 is the high plus humidity. We had interviews on Tuesday and we rode our bikes because we didn't have the car that day and President Weston made us get a ride home and he told us to be inside at 4:00 because that's the peak of  the heat or whatever. We were like you know we could avoid this if you gave us a car full time. But oh well.
Because it was such a hot week it was incredibly hard to proselyte. We had the car once in the past 8 days...so there has been a bit of contention because we can't get to our appts on time and members are on vacation so they couldn't take us. So some drama has been going on. But other than that we were blessed with a good week. We got some new investigators and we set another for baptism. :)
In interviews with President on Tuesday he said I would be leaving...so that sucks. I only have like 4 months left I don't understand why he can't just leave me here and I have no desire to get a new companion at all.  A couple members sent in a request that I stay so we'll see if that changes his mind. I guess ultimately the Lord decides so I'll just have to take it up with him.
Anyway, so our new investigators were a referral from the ward. There is a lot of background to it. But for times sake this guy named Jerry got in really bad motorcycle accident he is in Rehab and his wife died instantly and no one knows any idea what happened. So his parents are staying with him while he is in Madonna Rehab (which is in our area). I have no idea how the ward found out about this. But we just shared uplifting messages about Jesus Christ and did all we could to help them with their grief. We offered a priesthood blessing and some High Priests from our ward come and give a blessing. They had no idea what a blessing was so it was cool to explain it. :)
Honestly though going to visit them is really scary. Half of Jerry's head is missing and he has two young kids at home who don't know that there Mom is dead and that there Dad is in the hospital. So my testimony of the Plan of Salvation was strengthened recently. Oh man.
Life is insane that's for sure.
Anyway, yeah there was much more that happened this week, but alas I have no time. Thanks for all of your prayers and support.
Love you all!
Love, Sis Curfew

July 21, 2014

Dear Family,
That coke bottle is so cool! It even spelled my name right. Sometimes I forget that I have a first name that's not sister.
Daemian's lego's were super awesome! I'm impressed. How did he save up so much money? Aidan your block creation
was super epic. I'm surprised no one knocked it down.
Well I hope yellowstone is fun.
This week was a little on the rougher side. That's just how missionary work works...it comes and goes in waves. One of these
days we'll be able to have consistent weeks. :)
So I'll start off with some funny things that have happened. One, I had an epic bike crash. I thought it
would be a good idea to go down this really big hill...yeah bad idea. I have a testimony of helmets.
Second, I was told to drink a bunch of water because I was dehydrated....
Third, I cuddled with a hedge hog. A member has a hedge hog for a pet. I was nervous to hold it at first but turns out
their super cool. And now I'm kind of attached.
Fourth, I ate lamb. We had some members introduce us to Indian food. As long as it's not spicy it's actually really good.
Lamb is super good I can see why people eat it. :)
Other than that...we did a ton of service. We helped with this kids Eagle Project on Saturday that was pretty fun. We painted
a gym in the Salvation Army here in Lincoln. 
Then we helped this Less Active family move. Last week in ward council we specifically said to the EQ president. Hey this family is moving
at such and such time and day. They were like we'll totally come help out. Yeah NO ONE showed up. So for four hours we moved this family out of their apt and into their new apt. I HATE stairs. We were so sore. I was a bit annoyed that no one showed up because then it showed the LA family that they couldn't depend on the ward for anything. But all is well. It is what it is.
As for our investigators they're doing well. We're preparing them to be baptized one lesson at a time. :)
But yeah.  Hopefully this week will go  a bit better than last week.
Well love you tons! Thanks for the prayers and for the birthday package! I look forward to see what's in it.
Sis McCauley's birthday is on the 25th so it will be a birthday week for us both! Some members in our ward are throwing us a surprise
party...but we're on to them. Well anyway. I love you guys! :)
Love, Sister Curfew

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Current Address

Sister Ashley Curfew
4544 Bancroft Ave #5
 Lincoln, NE 68504

July 14, 2014

Dear Family,
     Happy to hear that mom is doing well. Those were nasty pictures. Sounds like everyone is taking good care of her.
That's cool that Blaine is the Ogden shin dig. When is it being dedicated? I feel like Blaine will be much more prepared for serving
a mission than I was. :) It'll be cool to see where he goes.
Well right now I just super exhausted. I'm  pretty sure we'll be spending our prep day in our beds blissfully sleeping. :) haha
that was a joke...we don't even have time to do that. But all is well.
This week was kind of incredible. I learned SO MUCH. We had a really epic zone training this past week. President Weston
has committed us to baptize monthly. And so the zone leaders trained a lot on faith and etc...I left that meeting wondering if
I have any faith! My companion was like yeah let's do this! I was just doubted hardcore that we could baptize monthly...I mean it sounds doable but then  you go out and start
 working and it's harder than anything I'll ever do. People just don't like us.I don't know I was just doubting. I know I am a horrible person. But as I prayed about it every night
and was reading my scriptures I was like, what can God not do? Nothing. He can do everything and I know that so why am I doubting? So my faith
was strengthened very much so and then that day we were able to set a guy named Danny for baptism. He just happened to be home at the time
we were planning on being there and we had an amazing team up with us. Have miracles ceased? Nope not at all! They're very real. :)
So we're going to try our best to baptize monthly. :) Much prayer would be appreciated. haha
We also had exchanges this week. It was amazing. We got in with so many people who usually would not let us in.
I was a little stressed out planning for that night because I felt like we needed to see these people, but I knew they wouldn't let
us in. So we put them down in our dinky planners expecting it to be a failure and we got in with every single one. I was very humbled.
Man I just need to work on having more faith! I'm seeing a pattern here. Anyway. This week was just amazing.
It was still hard though because we had what we call "The Great Car Shuffle." So we had just set a plan with sisters we were sharing a car with and
it was going really well and great and stuff. And then we get a call from the zone leaders that we were getting a different car with different
sisters and so on. It was really complicated! Anyway the new sisters we are sharing with are new sisters and they're just really difficult to work with.
It's really hard to be like Sisters we have done this before, we know what we are doing, and we promise the plan that we have is really the most effective
plan for sharing a car. Yeah they didn't like it. Usually I would be like that's it get out of the car you're walking for the rest of  your mission. Peace out!
But my comp and I were like okay...you do your thing and we'll do ours and whichever one works better we'll go with that. Our plan did work better like we said,
but they just needed to figure it out on their own the way things work. 
It made me think of like Agency and the huge role it has in the Plan of Salvation. God set a plan for us to follow. Keep the commandments, follow Jesus Christ,
be baptized, and etc...But we are able to choose between right and wrong. How amazing of a gift is that? Good planning on Heavenly Father's part. :) We have to
figure out things by ourselves and that's much more effective than Satan's plan.
Anyway yeah...I'm doing really well. Enjoying the work. :)
Love  you all!
Love, Sister Curfew 

July 7, 2014

Dear Family,
Dad, thanks for the email. Glad to hear that Blanding was super fun. It always is. I look forward to going there next year.
Sounds like your popcorn popper is super cool. Good to hear there was no fires in Utah. So all the fireworks in Utah that are illegal are legal here. It's amazing!!!! There is a family that lives in the middle of nowhere and they put on an epic firework show. It's like a huge family tradition. It was SO COOL. And loud. Lincoln is very into their fireworks. I didn't sleep for like 3 nights because it sounded like we were in a war zone/thunderstorm. Granted it's so green here so there is less of a risk of fires so that's nice. :) Lincoln is very serious about their fireworks.
I always find this concept of "doing the little things" kind of cool.  It kind of goes both ways. If you don't do the little things eventually you will fall. But if you do do the little things then great things come to pass. It's fascinating. "Small and simple things are great things come to pass." It's like working out. Doing 25 crunches once doesn't give  you a 6 pack. It's consistently doing crunches day by day that gets your core into shape.  Obviously I have not applied that into my life...I hate crunches. Anyway.
It also makes me think of the Atonement a lot. Many have fallen from not doing the little things, but because of our Savior Jesus Christ they are able to try again.  Also, through the Atonement we can change our character and nature.  I feel like that is a huge comfort for me because after my mission I will not be expected to study everyday and I will not be expected to do a lot of stuff. But the goal is that when every missionary gets home they're are able to keep up the habits we have learned because it's apart of our nature rather than "expected behavior." So hopefully I'll be able to apply that. I don't know about cont to wake up at 6:30...that might be the first thing to go...;) haha. All is well I still have a while so I'm not too worried.
Anyway this week went really well. It was hard week to proselyte obviously because it was a holiday week and everyone drinks here so...that made it difficult. But thankfully we were able to have a member drive us to some other small towns in our area. Like Firth, Hickman, Douglas, Panama, Palmyra...yeah our area is huge. There are a lot of LA out in those towns so we spent ALL day traveling to peoples houses and what not. We spent a lot of time in the car...the scenery was gorgeous though. :) We were able to meet a Recent Convert family and they're awesome. :) They haven't been able to come to church because Sis Dowling has a lot of legitimate health issues. But they have a  very strong testimony of the gospel and they're so great. I love the people out here. :) Also my new goal in life is to live on a ranch in the middle of nowhere...:) We'll see how that goes.  haha  So yeah that's my mission life...Sis McCauley is still as great as always. Car shares stink and I hate them but the members have been helping us out a lot. :) It's really really hot...I don't remember it being this hot last summer...But yeah.
Thanks for everything. I love you all and hopefully mom's surgery goes well.
Love, Sister Curfew
 

Pictures July 30th

Enormous Storm


Blackmail

more of the enormous storm